Happiness is complicated puzzle.

by Ruva
(London)

Happiness is a recipe of loads of things. I believe it does not come from one thing. I personally think that you will never be fully happy.

As Humans we will always want more. Whether it’s more money or more friends there will always be something else that you want, and once you have that you've already probably lost something that you had or want another thing again.

Appreciation is very important, without being appreciative how can you ever be happy? I also think that we only will be happy when we go Heaven. All the materialistic things will disappear, no crying over food or money, I think Heaven is the only place where someone will be truly and completely happy.

Some people may say things like "I'll only ever be happy if I win the lottery" or "I'd be so happy if I was a millionaire" but the thing is money doesn’t solve everything, yes life would become easier but then you either get sucked up into the money game and end up wanting more till you lose it all. You may lose loads of appreciation for things you have that is how we get spoilt people. You’re so used to having everything you want that when something doesn’t go your way you end up feeling so depressed because life is normally so easy for you.

Money isn’t the key to happiness, it may be a piece to the puzzle but it is not the key. Fame, some people spend their whole life trying to get that power and then when they do become famous they end up realising that they don’t want it because they lose their privacy. Most of us require other people to make us happy. We need someone to call us pretty for us to start to believe it or we need someone to tell us how great we are so we can feel worthy.

Happiness is something that is very complex. We may get moments of happiness but as I said before we will never be truly and completely happy without God. I think Love is a large piece to the happiness puzzle. Thousands a year go through unbearable heartbreaks or loss of loved ones.

I’m sure no one is ‘happy’ when someone they love lets them down or when they lose someone they really love. Love can make or break our happiness, if you fall in love you may feel on top of the world but if that person cheats on you, you end up feeling so unworthy and angry which proves that we all need someone else so that we are happy.