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Explanatory Style - Permanence
The Permanence dimension of Explanatory style refers to your belief that the cause is temporary (I had a bad day, I had a good day.) or permanent (I always have a bad day, I always have a good day). The different dimensions overlap a great deal, so it is hard to pull out thoughts that pertain to only one aspect but I will try to concentrate on Permanence for this article. If your explanatory style is or leans toward being permanent, you feel that this will always happen. That it will never change. That it cannot be changed. This is a good thing when the event is a good thing. like, winning a race, getting a promotion, having a great time at a party. You want those good things to be permanent. To happen over and over again. To never stop happening. On the other hand, having a permanent explanatory style is a bad thing for negative happenings: You got a flat tire. You came in last place in a race. You boy friend dumped you. You want the bad things to be temporary. To be a rare occurrence,. To never happen again. Here's a chart to illustrate the differences for the different type of events. I've highlighted in green the more positive way of explaining the cause of the event.
Do you understand the differences? If you explain the bad things in a permanent, non-changeable way, you can't help but become depressed, because things will always be bad. They won't change. If you explain those same occurrences in a temporary, changeable way, you can feel hope for the future and move on. If you find yourself thinking about a negative event in a permanent way, change it into something temporary. Conversely, if you find yourself thinking about a positive event in a temporary way, try attributing it to something more permanent. Follow the examples above. As I said in my article Explanatory Style, your Style is closely linked to your Self Concept and therefore Self Esteem. Which is all part of your personal beliefs. Beliefs are VERY powerful and this is another aspect of this power. Cognitive Behavior Therapy has been shown to be the most effective in combating depression and a negative explanatory style is one of the biggest contributors toward depression. Improve your Explanatory Style and you improve your life. Read the articles on each of the dimensions then read about Changing Your Thoughts to become more optimistic.
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